We love having East Side Bride pop over every few weeks with her totally candid advice for brides-to-be, but she has such a great fashion sense, we thought we’d have her over for some purely style-focused posts too. Bueno, right?
Here she goes with her take on rehearsal dinner dresses for many different sorts of brides.
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I’ve gotten a bunch of requests for rehearsal dinner dresses recently (WEDDING SEASON IS UPON US), so I figured I’d knock em all out in one big roundup.

For the bride who’s been “flip-flopping between ‘fun’ and prim – and can’t seem to find a balance,” the Rachel Comey Flippant Dress (via NOTCOUTURE) or the Madewell Floral Croquet Dress.

For the bride whose rehearsal dinner is doubling as a tea ceremony for her fiancé’s Chinese-Vietnamese family, Diane von Furstenberg’s New Julian Wrap Dress or Deianira Faux Wrap Dress.
(This was a tough one. The bride explained that ideally she’d wear a red cheongsam, but the sizes carried by the shops in her local Chinatown are too small for her. If only I could track down one of these Phillip Lims!)

For the bride who requested “A red carpet dress, A sequined, metallic New Year’s Eve number that will make me feel fabulous!” the Vince Cluster Sequin Silk Dress or the Halson Heritage Pleated Lamé Mini Dress.

And for the almost-too-cool-to-be-bothered bride, I’m a big fan of the ASOS WHITE Cupro Oversized Dress (via one of my fab readers).
A little piece of advice for all the brides out there? Just, please, don’t wear a white dress to the rehearsal dinner. It really kills the suspense.





Some gorgeous styles there…. lovin the red dress
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what a great post! I am bouncing back and forth between wearing something I already have or buying something new for our rehearsal dinner. then its the idea of do I go with white all weekend (rehearsal and the next day brunch) or wear whatever I want? decisions, decisions. xo
Only to add, in San Francisco’s Chinatown the bride always has her qipao/cheongsam custom made. You will still be too big, in theory, but the garment will fit:). Which brings to mind shopping in Shanghai with my 5′ 9″ daughter. Who is quite slender, but over there counted as a giantess of mythic proportions.
i have this theory that the halston dress would also be a solid choice for a bridesmaid to wear to a rehearsal dinner, say, in washington dc this june. dc needs more lame, no?
go on sale, halston dress. go on sale for me.
now I feel like I missed out, I totally wore jeans and a tank top to my rehearsal dinner! I had some killer sandals, though.
OH MY GOD THE HALSTON!
I’m the bride who’s been “flip-flopping between ‘fun’ and prim” and I am totally head over heels for the Madwell watercolor number. Such a great find! I also really liked the “save white for the wedding” advice, I’m definitely going to save that up for the big wedding dress reveal. Thanks a ton!
Shanghai Tang does cheongsam and they do cater to Western sizes. Oh how I covet!
http://www.shanghaitang.com/view-shanghai-tang-fashion-seasonal-looks
M, you rock!! (I had a sneaky feeling *somebody* would come through.)
I really love that sequinned number. Oh, sometimes living in Australia sucks.
that pleated silver one steals my heart!!
Woo! i love the Vince sequence dress! So glamorous….yet casual. (oversized short sleeves)
Help!!
I already bought a white dress. How can I accessorize it to keep from “killing the suspense??”
Kaydence, don’t worry about the white dress thing. If there is anything indie weddings preach, it’s to be yourself. If you wanted a white after-rehearsal dress, go for it! Unless it looks exactly like the wedding dress I really doubt there will be a problem.
My rehearsal dress is white too. It has big pink flowers, and I think it is absolutely wonderful. It is the polar opposite of my wedding dress, which is a lovely vintage dress that is a pretty cream color, but even if I had a white wedding dress I still wouldn’t care. I don’t think anything can “kill the suspense”, short of wearing your wedding dress on a daily basis the week before the wedding.
Great frocks